Friday, March 30, 2007
Last night was a wonderful evening for me. I was in my bedroom around 8 when I thought I heard my doorbell ring. I figured it was on television but then I heard it again. I peaked around the corner at my front door and there was Serif looking in the window at me. I was so surprised. I have a dutch door so I opened the top part and those little arms came right out for me. I was good and let her parents in too.
She just needed some Grammy time. We had such a nice visit. They stayed for about an hour before having to go home and put her to bed. It was a wonderful surprise.
Work has been very busy. I am in charge of coordinating the conferences for the company and there are a lot of conferences going on right now. I love being busy. It definitely helps make the days go by fast.
I also have the pleasure of having a busy weekend ahead of me. The Divas have always been so sweet to include me in their plans. Saturday night MotoDiva is having a birthday party and they have invited me. I am so excited. It will be so good to see everyone again. I'm always up for a good party. Then, of course, Sunday is church and shopping. What a nice weekend I have ahead of me.
My weight news is good. I have made my first goal by lossing 20.5 pounds. Now I am on to the next goal of 10 pounds. Slowly but surely I am getting this weight off.
That's the news for now. Guess it's time to get back to work.
More later...
Friday, March 23, 2007
Saturday is supposed to be a rainy day. With the drought we've been having, a nice rainy day has been rare. I'm hoping tomorrow will be the kind of rainy day that makes you want to curl up with a good book or sit and knit and watch TV. I love days like that.
Sunday is the usual church and shopping. I've been so good about going to church for Lent. Trust me, there have been a couple of Sunday mornings that I've been tempted to crawl back into bed but I haven't. The thing is that once I'm at church I enjoy it. It's just getting out of bed that's the hard part.
So that's my plans for the weekend. Exciting isn't it?
More later...
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Writing a blog is hard. I never know what to write about. I have a very boring life and I can't imagine anything that I could say that would be interesting to anyone. Except for seeing my family a couple of time a week, all I do is go to work and go home. Not very exciting is it?
It's funny because I read other people's blogs and they seem to have so much to say. I know that part of my problem is that it's hard for me to talk about me and my feelings. I am just not good at expressing my feelings in public. I'm more of the quiet type. (My kids can stop laughing now.) That combination doesn't make for a very good blogger. Plus I never want to hurt anyone's feelings. Missy might actually take it the wrong way if I referred to her as a brat in a blog. You never know.
There is one piece of good news and that is that I am finally getting some of this weight off. I only have one more pound to go and I will have made my first goal of 20 pounds. It has been coming off slowly but that's fine as long as it comes off. I really haven't started exercising yet but I know I'm going to have to. The problem is that I just hate to exercise. I really do. Why can't knitting be considered an exercise? That's something I can do. I know I've got to get up and start moving around but I'm tired when I get home and my sofa is so comfortable. See? I can come up with lots of excuses about not exercising. Of course I have had years of experience.
More later...
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
Last Sunday her mommy and daddy went bowling with some friends so I got to babysit. We had so much fun. I got her the cutest scooter. It's a little bug scooter and she just loves it. She was scooting all over the house. Sunday the scooter and Bosco were her favorite toys. She loves the fact that Bosco will lay there and let her love all over him. He will let her hug and kiss him all she wants. He'll even let her crawl on him and not move. They love each other so much.
Earlier on Sunday Missy and I went to her sister-in-law's sewing party. Nova is getting married in July and she has gathered Missy, her mother Kathy, her soon to be mother-in-law Martha, Missy and myself to help sew beads on her dress and work on the veil. This is such an exciting time for Nova. I don't envy her all the work involved in not only planning her wedding and honeymoon but also preparing to move into her new house.
The weather has been beautiful around here. The temperature is in the low 70's and the sun is shining. Yesterday, when I got home from work, I found Bosco laying out in the back yard basking in the sunlight. Oh the life of a dog.
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
We had such a wonderful day on Saturday. We all went to a vineyard for a very nice lunch. It was a surprise for Tom's birthday. He didn't know that we were coming. Patti's parents were there too so it was a big family event. It was so great to see her parents again. It's been ages. Serif was my big helper and crawled up on my lap and helped me eat my lunch.
After lunch we had a wine tasting. That was yummy. Patti and I went for the full tasting while the others just had sips. After all Tom and Missy were driving and it was a long drive home. Because of traffic it took us 2 hours to get home. We were all exhausted.
In the evening Tom and Patti came over to Missy's house and we all ate bar-b-que and had the birthday cake that I made for Tom. It was so much fun to just sit around and visit with each other but everyone was tired so it turned out to be an early night for everyone.
Last night was Fat Tuesday and that meant waffles at Missy's house. Terry makes the best waffles ever. I definitely ate plenty. Serif started a new game with me. She'd take a small bite of my waffle then I had a bite and then I got a big kiss. It was a great game and I enjoyed playing it as long as she wanted. For me it was over much too quickly. I love it when that sweet grandbaby is all cuddly and loving. She hadn't been feeling good during the day so she was extra cuddly. It was hard to drag myself away. It was definitely the best Fat Tuesday we'd had in years.
Today is the beginning of Lent. I decided not to give up something for Lent. I'm already on a diet so that didn't seem right. Instead I am taking on something. I plan to attend church every Sunday in Lent. Now I just have to remember to set the alarm.
Friday, February 16, 2007
I have been sick with different things since Christmas. It's enough to get a girl down. I'm not completely well but at least the pain is more bearable and I am hoping to be pain free soon. The sooner the better if you ask me.
Today is my son Tom's birthday. I met Tom when he was 4 years old. He was such a sweet little boy who just wanted a family. He was so loving and cuddly. He told his father that he wanted me as his new mother before Patrick and I ever talked about marriage. For years he was convinced that Patrick and I married because of him.
I became Tom's stepmother just before his 5th birthday. He was so happy when we got married. That meant he finally had his family. He was bursting with joy when we bought our first house and he got to pick out his room. In fact, when we bought the house, the man at the closing had Tom sign his name on a piece of paper because it was going to be his home too. That's when we really became a family in Tom's eyes.
That sweet little boy that I would walk to and from school until he felt he was big enough to walk alone. That one was hard. Or the little boy that excitedly volunteered his mother to help the teacher because all I did was sit home and watch TV until he got home from school.
I don't quite know exactly when I stopped being a stepmother and Tom stopped being a stepson. It happened quickly and our bond was special. Afterall, he and I had found each other and we picked each other out. In no time I was his mom and he was my son. That has never changed.
Tom did think that we needed a baby to make our family complete. He spent over a year petting my tummy and asking if there was a baby in there. When I was able to tell him yes he was thrilled. He was finally getting his little brother or sister. He was so proud when Missy was born. He brought all his little friends over to see her. Of course the newness wore off quickly but deep down he was always crazy about her. He still is.
That sweet little boy has grown into a young man that I am very proud of. He was grown a lot and it has not always been easy. He has had to overcome a lot but he has done it. He is a good husband and a wonderful caring person.
I will forever be grateful to Patricia for giving birth to that little boy 38 years ago. Without her I would never have had my son.
Tom, you and I have been on quite a journey the last 33 years. It hasn't always been easy. There have been some bumpy roads. A lot of laughter and some tears. We've both grown along the way. Thank you for letting me be with you on this journey. I am proud to call you my son.
Friday, December 29, 2006

This is my sweet grandbaby on Christmas Eve. Isn't she precious. She is getting so big.
We had a wonderful Christmas. The Tolleson/Patterson clan out did themselves again. I'm not talking about presents. Though I got some wonderful ones. I'm talking about the enjoyment of each other. Lots of good cheer and definitely too much food.
We spent Christmas eve at Missy's house. We always have a project and this year it was decorating marshmellow snowmen. We definitely had some strange snowmen when it was all over.
I was fortunate enough to be able to spend the night at Missy's house so I could be there on Christmas morning. I heard Missy and Terry talking in the bedroom so I went in to wish everyone a Merry Christmas. Serif was sleeping between them. When she heard my voice she opened her eyes and crawled over her daddy to get to me. She had no idea I would be there. That special Christmas hug was all it took to make my Christmas special.
Then it was time for me to hurry home and start cooking everyone's favorites for Christmas dinner. I love that part. The house smells so nice and inviting. Plus you can't beat having your children and grandchild home for Christmas day. It went so well that I had them all back the next night for leftovers. Personally, I think Christmas dinner always tastes better the next day.
The one thing I got for Christmas that I didn't want was bronchitis. My coughing got really bad by Christmas night. Apparently, Missy has never forgiven me for going into the hospital right after Christmas in 1999. She called the doctor the first thing the next morning and got me an appointment. Now I am on antibiotics and should be fine before the New Year. Missy ended up at the doctor's office the next day with a sinus infection. We are quite a pair aren't we?
Now for a pet peeve. I was laying in bed last night around 9:00. I am dozing on and off watching television when the phone rings. Without even thinking I grab it. In my sleepy haze I have a man on the phone asking for Patrick. I said you want Patrick and he said yes can he come to the phone. Now if I had been awake I probably would have had a come back for that. But I was half asleep and could only say that he was dead. The guy then proceeded to give the pitch to me. I said no and hung up on him. You would think these people would up date their calling lists occassionally. It's been over 9 years since Patrick died. I shouldn't still be getting phone calls for him.
Okay enough complaining. I am going home this evening and crawl into my bed and get over this stupid bronchitis. I'm tired to being sick. 2007 is going to be the year of Gloria. I'm going to try to start eating better and force myself to do some exercise. I'm getting too old to keep putting this off. I imagine you will be hearing more about this with the New Year. Right now I'm concentrating on getting well.
Sunday, December 24, 2006
Last night was so great. My son and his wonderful wife had all of us over for a Christmas Eve Eve celebration. Everything was so lovely. The house was so nice and inviting. You could see all the hard work they had been doing on the house and everything looked great. Patti did a great job on the food. As usual, I ate too much. I had such a wonderful time. The weather was terrible but it was so nice and comfortable in their house.
Their boxer, Hulda, was so funny. She thought it was great fun to have Serif at her house. It was like Serif was her own special girl. Lots of kisses and Serif quickly learned to say "no" to Hulda. Unfortunately, it was a very cute "no" that no one could take seriously.
At times like that, I am bad about sitting back and watching my children. I am so proud of them and the adults they have become. I love watching them interact with each other. Okay I admit it, I have a tendency to pat myself on the back. Raising children is not easy and I know that I made a lot of mistakes but they turned out great in spite of me.
Now it is Christmas Eve. The car is packed with presents to take over to Missy's. All of Terry's family will be gathering for our annual Christmas Eve together. I am very much into traditions. I think traditions are something that we can pass down to our children. A little piece of ourselves that they can keep going and pass on to their children. As I get older, I want to do things that will help my children and grandchildren to remember me.
Tomorrow all my children will come home and spend the day with me. I will cook the traditional Christmas dinner and we will sit around, exchange gifts and laugh a lot. That is what Christmas is to me. My family. Together.
I wish everyone a very blessed Christmas.
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
I had so much fun with my sweet grandbaby on Saturday night. She woke up happy and smiling on Sunday and ate a big breakfast. Not only a whole waffle but then mommy and daddy showed up with donuts and she had bites of them too. What a big girl she is these days.
So now I'm resorted to lists. Trying to figure out when I will get everything done. I worry every year and it all comes together. Maybe not as flawlessly as I had hoped but it always comes together and everyone seems happy.
The Christmas dinner has been bought and is waiting for me to cook it on Monday. The presents are waiting for me to wrap them and the house is waiting for me to clean it. I'll get there. I'm taking Friday off so hopefully it will all come together.
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Friday, December 15, 2006
This Christmas has been very exciting because of my wonderful granddaughter. This year she is noticing things and trying to figure out what is going on. It was fun introducing her to snowmen. Especially since she has no idea what snow is. Here in Austin it's supposed to get close to 80 degrees today. I did get her a snowman cup and she loves drinking out of it.
We are very fortunate this year. I think that's why the phone call I got last night was so sad. I got a call from one of the Daughters of the King. It turns out that a little 5 year old boy from our church lost his struggle for life yesterday. I was asked to help set up for the reception following the funeral. I consider it an honor to help these parents in any way I can. So I will go to the church in the afternoon. I will help the loving and caring women who will be there to make sure that everything is in place and that there is plenty of food for all who come. That's the least we can do.
Then I will go home and hug my sweet, cuddly granddaughter and thank God that we have her. She gets to spend the night with me so we will have lots of time to hug and kiss and play. I love to lay there and watch her sleep while I hold her close. Mommy and Daddy will be able to enjoy the Nutcracker and then have some special time together.
Sunday we will finish up some last minute shopping and get all the stuff we will need for our Christmas dinner.
First of all we have the Trail of Lights with the whole family. There will be a nice group of us this year since Don's family is coming too. The more the merrier. I hope Serif likes it.
So a busy weekend is planned. Hopefully I will get everything done. If not, there's always next week. Only 9 more days to go.
I almost forgot Happy Hanukkah!
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Grammy G's house is officially ready for Christmas. Everyone came over on Sat. night and decorated the family tree. Serif was even able to help. It was so nice having everyone at the house. We ordered pizza and drank eggnog. There was a lot of laughing, teasing and remembering. I couldn't have asked for a better evening. I love when the kids are back home. Bosco even got pizza bones.
Then on Sunday we all went to Missy's for a baking party. I didn't do much baking but I did enjoy visiting with everyone. Missy's SIL is house hunting so there was lots of house talk. She made her Christmas clouds. Patti made some yummy crescent cookies. All I did was eat. That's not unusual. Kathy helped Missy and me make the bourbon balls. That's our family tradition. Hopefully Missy won't eat too many of them before they are ready on Christmas eve.
Things are getting busy. Between work and the holidays, Grammy G is a bit weary. I do have my presents bought. Just some odds and ends to pick up. But I still have to wrap everything. That plus I definitely must do some house cleaning. So much to do and so little time.
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
That made me ponder all the Christmas traditions that become so ingrained in a family. Many of the family traditions are slowly being passed on to my children. It seems that Tom has taken over having the family over the night before Christmas eve. That is always fun. Then we go to Missy's on Christmas eve and my house on Christmas day. Needless to say over eating is guaranteed at that time.
Last weekend I made the banana nut bread. That is a tradition that was passed down from my parents. We always ate banana nut bread on Christmas morning. I make it for both my children so they can keep the tradition going in their own homes.
The Christmas cookies that I used to make for my children is now being done by Missy at her house. As are the bourbon balls.
Both of my children and their families come over and help decorate the family Christmas tree and we all enjoy looking at the ornaments that have been on that tree for many many years. The night is full of memories and laughter. Exactly what I love.
This year Missy and Terry are working on their own family traditions to pass down to Serif. That is one of the special things about this time of the year. You have the old traditions, like your favorite television programs and Christmas carols, that you carry from your childhood. Then there are the new traditions that you make with your new family to pass on.
I just love this time of year.
Monday, November 27, 2006
Thanksgiving started early for me. I thought I was going to have to help Terry with the turkey. They were thinking of going to the Turkey Trot race on Thanksgiving morning and he would need someone to make sure the temperature stayed the same. They decided at the last minute to let Serif sleep in and they didn't need me. Since I was up, I enjoyed a quiet morning drinking my coffee and making the dressing for Thanksgiving dinner. I went over around 10 and was pleasantly surprised with cofee and coffee cake. What a way to start the day.
After visiting for a little while, Missy and Serif went off to take a shower. A clean, sweet smelling and naked baby was passed to me. I dried her off and put on her diaper. Then she fell asleep in my arms. I love when she does that. So I got to hold sweet grandbaby while her mommy and daddy scurried around getting everything ready for everyone's arrival.
iDinner was a huge success. The turkey was falling off the bone. The ham was delicious and everyone brought food. I couldn't believe how much food there was. Missy and I sat at the kids table. That's always the best place to eat.
As good as Thanksgiving was, the leftovers on Friday were even better. Kathy, Tom, Patti and myself all arrived on Friday night to enjoy what was left of that great meal. Missy and Terry got out their Christmas tree and Serif got to begin finding out about Christmas.

As you can see Serif was quite impresed with the lights.
Then on Saturday came baking day. I had lots of banana nut bread to make for gifts this year so Missy, Terry and Serif came over to help. When Missy was little I would always put the chair up to the counter and let her play in the flour.

It may be a big mess to clean up but the fun makes it totally worth it. She enjoyed helping her Grammy G cook and was very proud of the end results. Poor Bosco had flour on him too. We had so much fun. It was perfect.
Sunday was our regular shopping. What a busy Thanksgiving weekend. I definitely could have used a few more days off. Now it's time to get everything ready for Christmas. I love this time of year.
Monday, November 20, 2006
Thursday I finally got my job review. Not bad. I really can't complain. It looks like there will be some new jobs for me to take on next year. That's good because I honestly am not that busy at work. The work load goes up and down but mostly down. I do like being busy because it makes the day go by faster. Of course, it does cut into my blogging.
I took Friday off and Missy and I went Christmas shopping. This started right after Patrick died. November 17 is his birthday and in our grief we used that day to be together and shop. We discovered that shopping is great for dealing with grief. Anyway, after all these years it has become a tradition for us to do our Christmas shopping on this day. I am so thrilled because I got all of my precious grandbaby's presents bought and most everyone elses. A few things still to pick up in shops and some on line stuff to buy and then I will be completely done with my Christmas shopping. That means I can sit back and enjoy the season.
I also got to go with Missy to Serif's day care for their Thanksgiving dinner. That didn't work out too well because she got so excited about me being there with her mommy that she wouldn't eat. All she wanted to do was run around and show me everything. We finally had to leave so she would eat some lunch. Poor baby. Plus she is cutting molars and she's just miserable. I sure wish they would come through before Thanksgiving. It would be so much better for her and definitley easier on her mommy.
Then Friday night after all our shopping, my son and daughter-in-law came over to Missy's and we all sat around and watched The Producers. Serif just loved that show. That little girl does love a good musical.
Sunday was the usual running around. The kids surprised me with lunch and then we headed out to get our groceries for the week. It really does make a difference when we go together. It may take a little longer but it's definitely more fun. I think we got just about everything for Thanksgiving. It's going to be so much fun this year. Terry's sister got engaged and so it's not just our family but her fiancee's parents and brother. We have such a small family that's it's always wonderful when we are able to add more to the mix. It should be a great day full of family, food and friends. What more could you ask for.
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
Saturday night I had the baby. We had so much fun. She is getting so big. We laughed and danced and sang. She was sound asleep when mommy and daddy finally arrived. Missy had really been enjoying her evening and was feeling no pain. She is so funny when she's had too much to drink.
Then Sunday was the family celebation. Terry's mom, Kathy, made some great sandwiches and I furnished the cake. Everyone ate too much and we all enjoyed spending time together. We are so fortunate that our families get along so well.
Serif definitely enjoyed being the center of attention and entertained everyone. I can tell you that she likes Italian creme cake. She crawled up on my lap and ate half my cake.
The bad news is that my boss in PA lost her voice cheering at a football game so my review has been postponed until Thursday morning.
That's all the news for now.
Friday, November 10, 2006
Happy Birthday Missy

This is my beautiful baby girl. She turns 30 years old on November 12.
Thirty years ago on November 12, 1976, it was a dark cold and rainy day in Austin, Texas. I was bundled up staying warm in my house except for the time I went to see the new baby up the street. How was I to know that you were the jealous type and I would go into labor while holding a 3 day old infant? At least you waited until after 5 on a Friday. I know daddy's boss appreciated that.
Your grandparents had just built a fire and sworn that nothing could get them out on a night as nasty as that night was when your father called them. They banked the fire, put on their coats and headed to the hospital. See everyone jumped for you even then.
You brought a lot of joy and laughter into our lives. There are so many memories that I have of your growing up. Like the time you toddled up to your daddy and asked him to buy you a puppy and Duke became a member of the family the next weekend. The way you liked to be the center of attention and was always performing for everyone in the room.
I remember how excited you would get when school was getting ready to start. You loved to get your new school supplies and you still do. I always thought the new school supplies is what kept you in school through your masters degree.
You were daddy's little girl and he was so proud of you. I still remember the wink he gave you when we walked into his hospital room the day he died. He always had that special smile for you.
I appreciate the woman you have become. You are a wonderful wife and mother. But most of all I'm proud of the person you have become. You are so full of love and compassion. You have a tenderness that all can see yet a strength that will get you through anything life throws at you. You are a true and loyal friend and a wonderful sister and sister-in-law. Plus no mother could ask for a better daughter.
When you were born I was so happy and so full of dreams for you. You have turned out better than I could have ever imagined. I am so proud to be your mother. You are my daughter but you are also my friend. Thank you for letting me share all the wonder of you.
Thursday, November 09, 2006
I got a call last week from Missy informing me that she had just made appointments for both of us to get our flu shots. So this morning we met at the doctor's office and each got our shots. Thanks Missy for taking such good care of your old mother.
Today I get to pick up my sweet grandbaby from day care. I worry about what she is thinking when I pick her up. She always comes to me. In fact, she usually asks me to carry her out. But she has such a solemn look on her face. Like she's just not sure what to make of the fact that I'm there. By the time we get in the house she's smiling and talking but it's that look when she sees me come and get her. There are so many times I wish I see what that little girl is thinking. We'll see what happens today.
Terry stopped by last night and dropped off the presents for Missy's birthday. This way she can't see them and she also can't try to get Terry to give them to her early. He's really catching on to her ways. This may be the first birthday that she has had to wait until her actual birthday to open her presents. I will take them over with me when I go for her party on Sunday. Good thinking Terry.
Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Here are my two loves. This weekend the kids came over so that Serif could play soccer in my back yard. I don't think she's quite ready to go pro but she did kick the ball a couple of times. We all enjoyed standing around and watching her.
Bosco is my 13 year old brown lab. You can see the gray on his muzzle. He loves that little girl so much and is so jealous of her. It is very much a love/hate relationship. He is jealous of the time I spend with her but he sure does like to eat the things that she eats and she loves to share. He will just lay there and let her do anything she wants to him. She loves to kiss and hug him. Unfortunately, that usually happens when he is sound asleep. He is such a good dog.
This rock used to be Missy's special spot to sit. She would sit on it and think deep thoughts or just look around the yard. It's funny to see it go to the next generation. That's one of the nice parts of living in a house for so long. There are definitely lots of memories.
Thursday, November 02, 2006
Wednesday, November 01, 2006
Halloween
For the first time in a quite a while I had my whole family at the house. It was so wonderful. First of all I left work early and went by and voted. Then off to the house to get ready for Halloween.
Missy, Terry and Serif came by to show off their costumes. I have to tell you that Serif was the cutest Minnie Mouse ever. Missy and I took her to a couple of houses by my house and while we were gone Tom and Patti came by.
Poor Serif just did not know what to think about this Halloween stuff. Why in the world would you go to stranger's houses and take candy from them? Missy said it didn't take long for her to catch on though. After my house they went on to Terry's family so that they could go trick or treating with them. It was a busy night for little Serif.
After Terry, Missy and Serif left, Tom, Patti and I were able to sit around and have a wonderful visit. It's been too long since we were able to just sit back and enjoy each other's company. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect evening.
There weren't many trick or treaters this year so I have lots of candy left over. Good think I bought the kind that I like isn't it?


