The Christmas season is definitely here. I went over to my wonderful daughter's house and watched "A Charlie Brown Christmas". It was fun to see my sweet grandbaby enjoy all the new sights and sounds of Christmas. They had put lights on their house and the baby loved going outside and seeing them.
That made me ponder all the Christmas traditions that become so ingrained in a family. Many of the family traditions are slowly being passed on to my children. It seems that Tom has taken over having the family over the night before Christmas eve. That is always fun. Then we go to Missy's on Christmas eve and my house on Christmas day. Needless to say over eating is guaranteed at that time.
Last weekend I made the banana nut bread. That is a tradition that was passed down from my parents. We always ate banana nut bread on Christmas morning. I make it for both my children so they can keep the tradition going in their own homes.
The Christmas cookies that I used to make for my children is now being done by Missy at her house. As are the bourbon balls.
Both of my children and their families come over and help decorate the family Christmas tree and we all enjoy looking at the ornaments that have been on that tree for many many years. The night is full of memories and laughter. Exactly what I love.
This year Missy and Terry are working on their own family traditions to pass down to Serif. That is one of the special things about this time of the year. You have the old traditions, like your favorite television programs and Christmas carols, that you carry from your childhood. Then there are the new traditions that you make with your new family to pass on.
I just love this time of year.
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
Monday, November 27, 2006
What a wonderful Thanksgiving. I couldn't have asked for a better long weekend.
Thanksgiving started early for me. I thought I was going to have to help Terry with the turkey. They were thinking of going to the Turkey Trot race on Thanksgiving morning and he would need someone to make sure the temperature stayed the same. They decided at the last minute to let Serif sleep in and they didn't need me. Since I was up, I enjoyed a quiet morning drinking my coffee and making the dressing for Thanksgiving dinner. I went over around 10 and was pleasantly surprised with cofee and coffee cake. What a way to start the day.
After visiting for a little while, Missy and Serif went off to take a shower. A clean, sweet smelling and naked baby was passed to me. I dried her off and put on her diaper. Then she fell asleep in my arms. I love when she does that. So I got to hold sweet grandbaby while her mommy and daddy scurried around getting everything ready for everyone's arrival.
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Dinner was a huge success. The turkey was falling off the bone. The ham was delicious and everyone brought food. I couldn't believe how much food there was. Missy and I sat at the kids table. That's always the best place to eat.
As good as Thanksgiving was, the leftovers on Friday were even better. Kathy, Tom, Patti and myself all arrived on Friday night to enjoy what was left of that great meal. Missy and Terry got out their Christmas tree and Serif got to begin finding out about Christmas.

As you can see Serif was quite impresed with the lights.
Then on Saturday came baking day. I had lots of banana nut bread to make for gifts this year so Missy, Terry and Serif came over to help. When Missy was little I would always put the chair up to the counter and let her play in the flour.

It may be a big mess to clean up but the fun makes it totally worth it. She enjoyed helping her Grammy G cook and was very proud of the end results. Poor Bosco had flour on him too. We had so much fun. It was perfect.
Sunday was our regular shopping. What a busy Thanksgiving weekend. I definitely could have used a few more days off. Now it's time to get everything ready for Christmas. I love this time of year.
Thanksgiving started early for me. I thought I was going to have to help Terry with the turkey. They were thinking of going to the Turkey Trot race on Thanksgiving morning and he would need someone to make sure the temperature stayed the same. They decided at the last minute to let Serif sleep in and they didn't need me. Since I was up, I enjoyed a quiet morning drinking my coffee and making the dressing for Thanksgiving dinner. I went over around 10 and was pleasantly surprised with cofee and coffee cake. What a way to start the day.
After visiting for a little while, Missy and Serif went off to take a shower. A clean, sweet smelling and naked baby was passed to me. I dried her off and put on her diaper. Then she fell asleep in my arms. I love when she does that. So I got to hold sweet grandbaby while her mommy and daddy scurried around getting everything ready for everyone's arrival.
iDinner was a huge success. The turkey was falling off the bone. The ham was delicious and everyone brought food. I couldn't believe how much food there was. Missy and I sat at the kids table. That's always the best place to eat.
As good as Thanksgiving was, the leftovers on Friday were even better. Kathy, Tom, Patti and myself all arrived on Friday night to enjoy what was left of that great meal. Missy and Terry got out their Christmas tree and Serif got to begin finding out about Christmas.

As you can see Serif was quite impresed with the lights.
Then on Saturday came baking day. I had lots of banana nut bread to make for gifts this year so Missy, Terry and Serif came over to help. When Missy was little I would always put the chair up to the counter and let her play in the flour.

It may be a big mess to clean up but the fun makes it totally worth it. She enjoyed helping her Grammy G cook and was very proud of the end results. Poor Bosco had flour on him too. We had so much fun. It was perfect.
Sunday was our regular shopping. What a busy Thanksgiving weekend. I definitely could have used a few more days off. Now it's time to get everything ready for Christmas. I love this time of year.
Monday, November 20, 2006
My goodness but Grammy G has been a busy girl since I last blogged.
Thursday I finally got my job review. Not bad. I really can't complain. It looks like there will be some new jobs for me to take on next year. That's good because I honestly am not that busy at work. The work load goes up and down but mostly down. I do like being busy because it makes the day go by faster. Of course, it does cut into my blogging.
I took Friday off and Missy and I went Christmas shopping. This started right after Patrick died. November 17 is his birthday and in our grief we used that day to be together and shop. We discovered that shopping is great for dealing with grief. Anyway, after all these years it has become a tradition for us to do our Christmas shopping on this day. I am so thrilled because I got all of my precious grandbaby's presents bought and most everyone elses. A few things still to pick up in shops and some on line stuff to buy and then I will be completely done with my Christmas shopping. That means I can sit back and enjoy the season.
I also got to go with Missy to Serif's day care for their Thanksgiving dinner. That didn't work out too well because she got so excited about me being there with her mommy that she wouldn't eat. All she wanted to do was run around and show me everything. We finally had to leave so she would eat some lunch. Poor baby. Plus she is cutting molars and she's just miserable. I sure wish they would come through before Thanksgiving. It would be so much better for her and definitley easier on her mommy.
Then Friday night after all our shopping, my son and daughter-in-law came over to Missy's and we all sat around and watched The Producers. Serif just loved that show. That little girl does love a good musical.
Sunday was the usual running around. The kids surprised me with lunch and then we headed out to get our groceries for the week. It really does make a difference when we go together. It may take a little longer but it's definitely more fun. I think we got just about everything for Thanksgiving. It's going to be so much fun this year. Terry's sister got engaged and so it's not just our family but her fiancee's parents and brother. We have such a small family that's it's always wonderful when we are able to add more to the mix. It should be a great day full of family, food and friends. What more could you ask for.
Thursday I finally got my job review. Not bad. I really can't complain. It looks like there will be some new jobs for me to take on next year. That's good because I honestly am not that busy at work. The work load goes up and down but mostly down. I do like being busy because it makes the day go by faster. Of course, it does cut into my blogging.
I took Friday off and Missy and I went Christmas shopping. This started right after Patrick died. November 17 is his birthday and in our grief we used that day to be together and shop. We discovered that shopping is great for dealing with grief. Anyway, after all these years it has become a tradition for us to do our Christmas shopping on this day. I am so thrilled because I got all of my precious grandbaby's presents bought and most everyone elses. A few things still to pick up in shops and some on line stuff to buy and then I will be completely done with my Christmas shopping. That means I can sit back and enjoy the season.
I also got to go with Missy to Serif's day care for their Thanksgiving dinner. That didn't work out too well because she got so excited about me being there with her mommy that she wouldn't eat. All she wanted to do was run around and show me everything. We finally had to leave so she would eat some lunch. Poor baby. Plus she is cutting molars and she's just miserable. I sure wish they would come through before Thanksgiving. It would be so much better for her and definitley easier on her mommy.
Then Friday night after all our shopping, my son and daughter-in-law came over to Missy's and we all sat around and watched The Producers. Serif just loved that show. That little girl does love a good musical.
Sunday was the usual running around. The kids surprised me with lunch and then we headed out to get our groceries for the week. It really does make a difference when we go together. It may take a little longer but it's definitely more fun. I think we got just about everything for Thanksgiving. It's going to be so much fun this year. Terry's sister got engaged and so it's not just our family but her fiancee's parents and brother. We have such a small family that's it's always wonderful when we are able to add more to the mix. It should be a great day full of family, food and friends. What more could you ask for.
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
The good news is that I think Missy had a good 30th birthday.
Saturday night I had the baby. We had so much fun. She is getting so big. We laughed and danced and sang. She was sound asleep when mommy and daddy finally arrived. Missy had really been enjoying her evening and was feeling no pain. She is so funny when she's had too much to drink.
Then Sunday was the family celebation. Terry's mom, Kathy, made some great sandwiches and I furnished the cake. Everyone ate too much and we all enjoyed spending time together. We are so fortunate that our families get along so well.
Serif definitely enjoyed being the center of attention and entertained everyone. I can tell you that she likes Italian creme cake. She crawled up on my lap and ate half my cake.
The bad news is that my boss in PA lost her voice cheering at a football game so my review has been postponed until Thursday morning.
That's all the news for now.
Saturday night I had the baby. We had so much fun. She is getting so big. We laughed and danced and sang. She was sound asleep when mommy and daddy finally arrived. Missy had really been enjoying her evening and was feeling no pain. She is so funny when she's had too much to drink.
Then Sunday was the family celebation. Terry's mom, Kathy, made some great sandwiches and I furnished the cake. Everyone ate too much and we all enjoyed spending time together. We are so fortunate that our families get along so well.
Serif definitely enjoyed being the center of attention and entertained everyone. I can tell you that she likes Italian creme cake. She crawled up on my lap and ate half my cake.
The bad news is that my boss in PA lost her voice cheering at a football game so my review has been postponed until Thursday morning.
That's all the news for now.
Friday, November 10, 2006
Happy Birthday Missy

This is my beautiful baby girl. She turns 30 years old on November 12.
Thirty years ago on November 12, 1976, it was a dark cold and rainy day in Austin, Texas. I was bundled up staying warm in my house except for the time I went to see the new baby up the street. How was I to know that you were the jealous type and I would go into labor while holding a 3 day old infant? At least you waited until after 5 on a Friday. I know daddy's boss appreciated that.
Your grandparents had just built a fire and sworn that nothing could get them out on a night as nasty as that night was when your father called them. They banked the fire, put on their coats and headed to the hospital. See everyone jumped for you even then.
You brought a lot of joy and laughter into our lives. There are so many memories that I have of your growing up. Like the time you toddled up to your daddy and asked him to buy you a puppy and Duke became a member of the family the next weekend. The way you liked to be the center of attention and was always performing for everyone in the room.
I remember how excited you would get when school was getting ready to start. You loved to get your new school supplies and you still do. I always thought the new school supplies is what kept you in school through your masters degree.
You were daddy's little girl and he was so proud of you. I still remember the wink he gave you when we walked into his hospital room the day he died. He always had that special smile for you.
I appreciate the woman you have become. You are a wonderful wife and mother. But most of all I'm proud of the person you have become. You are so full of love and compassion. You have a tenderness that all can see yet a strength that will get you through anything life throws at you. You are a true and loyal friend and a wonderful sister and sister-in-law. Plus no mother could ask for a better daughter.
When you were born I was so happy and so full of dreams for you. You have turned out better than I could have ever imagined. I am so proud to be your mother. You are my daughter but you are also my friend. Thank you for letting me share all the wonder of you.
Thursday, November 09, 2006
There are definite advantages and disadvantages to having the same family doctor as your daughter.
I got a call last week from Missy informing me that she had just made appointments for both of us to get our flu shots. So this morning we met at the doctor's office and each got our shots. Thanks Missy for taking such good care of your old mother.
Today I get to pick up my sweet grandbaby from day care. I worry about what she is thinking when I pick her up. She always comes to me. In fact, she usually asks me to carry her out. But she has such a solemn look on her face. Like she's just not sure what to make of the fact that I'm there. By the time we get in the house she's smiling and talking but it's that look when she sees me come and get her. There are so many times I wish I see what that little girl is thinking. We'll see what happens today.
Terry stopped by last night and dropped off the presents for Missy's birthday. This way she can't see them and she also can't try to get Terry to give them to her early. He's really catching on to her ways. This may be the first birthday that she has had to wait until her actual birthday to open her presents. I will take them over with me when I go for her party on Sunday. Good thinking Terry.
I got a call last week from Missy informing me that she had just made appointments for both of us to get our flu shots. So this morning we met at the doctor's office and each got our shots. Thanks Missy for taking such good care of your old mother.
Today I get to pick up my sweet grandbaby from day care. I worry about what she is thinking when I pick her up. She always comes to me. In fact, she usually asks me to carry her out. But she has such a solemn look on her face. Like she's just not sure what to make of the fact that I'm there. By the time we get in the house she's smiling and talking but it's that look when she sees me come and get her. There are so many times I wish I see what that little girl is thinking. We'll see what happens today.
Terry stopped by last night and dropped off the presents for Missy's birthday. This way she can't see them and she also can't try to get Terry to give them to her early. He's really catching on to her ways. This may be the first birthday that she has had to wait until her actual birthday to open her presents. I will take them over with me when I go for her party on Sunday. Good thinking Terry.
Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Here are my two loves. This weekend the kids came over so that Serif could play soccer in my back yard. I don't think she's quite ready to go pro but she did kick the ball a couple of times. We all enjoyed standing around and watching her.
Bosco is my 13 year old brown lab. You can see the gray on his muzzle. He loves that little girl so much and is so jealous of her. It is very much a love/hate relationship. He is jealous of the time I spend with her but he sure does like to eat the things that she eats and she loves to share. He will just lay there and let her do anything she wants to him. She loves to kiss and hug him. Unfortunately, that usually happens when he is sound asleep. He is such a good dog.
This rock used to be Missy's special spot to sit. She would sit on it and think deep thoughts or just look around the yard. It's funny to see it go to the next generation. That's one of the nice parts of living in a house for so long. There are definitely lots of memories.
Thursday, November 02, 2006
Wednesday, November 01, 2006
Halloween
I have to tell you that I had a fantastic Halloween.
For the first time in a quite a while I had my whole family at the house. It was so wonderful. First of all I left work early and went by and voted. Then off to the house to get ready for Halloween.
Missy, Terry and Serif came by to show off their costumes. I have to tell you that Serif was the cutest Minnie Mouse ever. Missy and I took her to a couple of houses by my house and while we were gone Tom and Patti came by.
Poor Serif just did not know what to think about this Halloween stuff. Why in the world would you go to stranger's houses and take candy from them? Missy said it didn't take long for her to catch on though. After my house they went on to Terry's family so that they could go trick or treating with them. It was a busy night for little Serif.
After Terry, Missy and Serif left, Tom, Patti and I were able to sit around and have a wonderful visit. It's been too long since we were able to just sit back and enjoy each other's company. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect evening.
There weren't many trick or treaters this year so I have lots of candy left over. Good think I bought the kind that I like isn't it?
For the first time in a quite a while I had my whole family at the house. It was so wonderful. First of all I left work early and went by and voted. Then off to the house to get ready for Halloween.
Missy, Terry and Serif came by to show off their costumes. I have to tell you that Serif was the cutest Minnie Mouse ever. Missy and I took her to a couple of houses by my house and while we were gone Tom and Patti came by.
Poor Serif just did not know what to think about this Halloween stuff. Why in the world would you go to stranger's houses and take candy from them? Missy said it didn't take long for her to catch on though. After my house they went on to Terry's family so that they could go trick or treating with them. It was a busy night for little Serif.
After Terry, Missy and Serif left, Tom, Patti and I were able to sit around and have a wonderful visit. It's been too long since we were able to just sit back and enjoy each other's company. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect evening.
There weren't many trick or treaters this year so I have lots of candy left over. Good think I bought the kind that I like isn't it?
Monday, October 30, 2006
Weekend Update
What a wonderful weekend Grammy G had. What could be better than spending the whole weekend with the most wonderful little girl in the whole world?
We had so much fun. We played and played. We talked lots. We sang and danced. We had lots of hugs and kisses. It was just perfect. She was so good. I know Missy missed her but I'm so glad I had her. Unfortunately, Tom never stopped by. It would have been nice to have spent some time with him too. It was funny because my best friend called while I was babysitting. Her granddaughter was spending the night with her too. We got to compare notes. In fact, she called every night just to see if I was still having fun. Trust me, I was.
Poor Bosco. He's 13 years old and isn't used to kids being around. Just as he was going to sleep she would come up and hug and kiss him. He would just lay there and take it. Then go back to sleep until the next time. He did enjoy getting to eat her leftovers. I think that was the highlight of the weekend for him. Lots of Serif food. Serif thought it was so funny that I sang our good morning song to the dog.
The work the kids got done on their bedroom is unbelieveable. It looks fantastic. They worked so hard and it shows. I just love the color they picked for their bedroom. I can't discribe it but it brings out the wood of the furniture. It looks so good it almost makes me want to get off my you know what and do something around my house. Notice I said almost?
The smile on that baby's face when her mommy and daddy walked in on Sunday was precious. She was so happy to see her mommy and daddy. Lots of hugs and kisses were exchanged. The kids even took me to Quiznos to thank me for taking care of her. I got to see the finished room and then it was off to Target for halloween candy.
Missy was too tired for the store so I went alone and got everything I needed for the coming week. I was also able to cook the Halloween chili so the kids can pick it up tonight. Doing all that and then cleaning up all the toys that were thrown around the living room made for one tired Grammy. Needless to say I slept really good last night.
So I'm already for the trick or treaters tomorrow night. I hope we gets lots of kids. I do enjoy seeing all the different costumes and it's great to see the neighborhood kids.
We had so much fun. We played and played. We talked lots. We sang and danced. We had lots of hugs and kisses. It was just perfect. She was so good. I know Missy missed her but I'm so glad I had her. Unfortunately, Tom never stopped by. It would have been nice to have spent some time with him too. It was funny because my best friend called while I was babysitting. Her granddaughter was spending the night with her too. We got to compare notes. In fact, she called every night just to see if I was still having fun. Trust me, I was.
Poor Bosco. He's 13 years old and isn't used to kids being around. Just as he was going to sleep she would come up and hug and kiss him. He would just lay there and take it. Then go back to sleep until the next time. He did enjoy getting to eat her leftovers. I think that was the highlight of the weekend for him. Lots of Serif food. Serif thought it was so funny that I sang our good morning song to the dog.
The work the kids got done on their bedroom is unbelieveable. It looks fantastic. They worked so hard and it shows. I just love the color they picked for their bedroom. I can't discribe it but it brings out the wood of the furniture. It looks so good it almost makes me want to get off my you know what and do something around my house. Notice I said almost?
The smile on that baby's face when her mommy and daddy walked in on Sunday was precious. She was so happy to see her mommy and daddy. Lots of hugs and kisses were exchanged. The kids even took me to Quiznos to thank me for taking care of her. I got to see the finished room and then it was off to Target for halloween candy.
Missy was too tired for the store so I went alone and got everything I needed for the coming week. I was also able to cook the Halloween chili so the kids can pick it up tonight. Doing all that and then cleaning up all the toys that were thrown around the living room made for one tired Grammy. Needless to say I slept really good last night.
So I'm already for the trick or treaters tomorrow night. I hope we gets lots of kids. I do enjoy seeing all the different costumes and it's great to see the neighborhood kids.
Friday, October 27, 2006
TGIF
Well the weekend is almost here. I am definitely ready for it.
The kids have made their decision. They are staying in town and painting their bedroom. Personally, I think that's a good idea for meany reasons. First it will give them a great sense of accomplishment and they have been wanting to do this for so long. Second it will be easier in case someone changes their mind about the weekend. I'm not saying anyone will, but whether it be Missy or Serif, it's nice to know that they can. After all, this is the first time they have been separated for this length of time. I know how hard it would be for me. I just hope they get everything done. Then they can sit back and enjoy their new room.
Last night Tom called to check in. It's always so good to hear from him. I'm so proud of Tom and what he has accomplished. He has been through so much and is doing so well. He's come a long way. Patti is busy this weekend so he may come and spend some time with Serif and me on Saturday. I think that would be so great. He and Patti are so good with that baby. They are crazy about her. She is a very loved little girl.
I have told Missy to have Serif at my house by 7:00 this evening. Charlie Brown is coming on and I want Serif to see if. It is going to be so much fun watching her watch the holiday television specials this year. She is getting so big and we are all enjoying her so much as she gets bigger.
She is going to be Minnie Mouse for Halloween. I can't wait to see her all dressed up. Missy has promised to take lots of pictures for me. I think I'm going to have to give in and get my own camera. It takes too long to get pictures out of Missy.
Now I have to finish my work so I can start my weekend.
The kids have made their decision. They are staying in town and painting their bedroom. Personally, I think that's a good idea for meany reasons. First it will give them a great sense of accomplishment and they have been wanting to do this for so long. Second it will be easier in case someone changes their mind about the weekend. I'm not saying anyone will, but whether it be Missy or Serif, it's nice to know that they can. After all, this is the first time they have been separated for this length of time. I know how hard it would be for me. I just hope they get everything done. Then they can sit back and enjoy their new room.
Last night Tom called to check in. It's always so good to hear from him. I'm so proud of Tom and what he has accomplished. He has been through so much and is doing so well. He's come a long way. Patti is busy this weekend so he may come and spend some time with Serif and me on Saturday. I think that would be so great. He and Patti are so good with that baby. They are crazy about her. She is a very loved little girl.
I have told Missy to have Serif at my house by 7:00 this evening. Charlie Brown is coming on and I want Serif to see if. It is going to be so much fun watching her watch the holiday television specials this year. She is getting so big and we are all enjoying her so much as she gets bigger.
She is going to be Minnie Mouse for Halloween. I can't wait to see her all dressed up. Missy has promised to take lots of pictures for me. I think I'm going to have to give in and get my own camera. It takes too long to get pictures out of Missy.
Now I have to finish my work so I can start my weekend.
Thursday, October 26, 2006
Surprise
I got the nicest surprise when I arrived home after a long day at work. There was my wonderful family waiting for me. It was so nice to walk into the house with everyone there. Serif came to greet me at the door. Usually the house is so quiet when I get home. On top of that Terry brought in dinner for me. What more could I ask for.
Then they were off for their appointment and Serif and I were on our own. I fixed her some dinner which she ate like a big girl. She is not a big eater so when she eats anything we all get excited. The dog enjoyed all the leftovers. He does eat well when she's there.
Then it was time to play. She is such a good girl. We played and read stories until mommy and daddy came home. Boy does her face light up when they walk through the door.
Tonight I need to get ready for this weekend. Since I'm not sure what all I can get done with my little helper around, I need to get some of my weekend chores done before she arrives. I did make the swiffer her size so she can at least help me with the floors.
The kids don't even know what they are going to do. They can't decide between going to the coast with friends, having a romantic weekend just the two of them or painting and decorating their bedroom. So many choices. I just want them to have fun. They deserve it. Lets just hope they have made up their minds by the time they leave the baby with me tomorrow afternoon.
Then they were off for their appointment and Serif and I were on our own. I fixed her some dinner which she ate like a big girl. She is not a big eater so when she eats anything we all get excited. The dog enjoyed all the leftovers. He does eat well when she's there.
Then it was time to play. She is such a good girl. We played and read stories until mommy and daddy came home. Boy does her face light up when they walk through the door.
Tonight I need to get ready for this weekend. Since I'm not sure what all I can get done with my little helper around, I need to get some of my weekend chores done before she arrives. I did make the swiffer her size so she can at least help me with the floors.
The kids don't even know what they are going to do. They can't decide between going to the coast with friends, having a romantic weekend just the two of them or painting and decorating their bedroom. So many choices. I just want them to have fun. They deserve it. Lets just hope they have made up their minds by the time they leave the baby with me tomorrow afternoon.
Wednesday, October 25, 2006
Grandparents
I can't believe how long it's been since I last blogged. Work is starting to interfer with my blogging. That is definitely not good.
Today I get to babysit. It's always fun to spend a few hours with my favorite little girl. What is going to be an experience is this weekend. I am going to have my precious grandbaby for the whole weekend. This is big. This will be a first time for both of us. I hope she's ready for this. I hope I'm ready for this.
My children spent lots of time with their grandparents. That was one of the advantages of living so close to them. I enjoyed the nights that they spent at their grandparents houses and I know how much it meant to their grandparents. That is such a special relationship. I know how important those memories are for my children. I want those memories for my granddaughter too.
Everything is ready. I have the milk, the chicken nuggets and the goldfish. I have the toys ready to be played with. I have warned the dog that she is coming. All we need is the baby.
As I have said before, I didn't see my grandparents very often. When I have about four years old my father was sent to Korea. My mother and I moved to California to be closer to my father's parents. I have some memories of that time.
One memory is being at my grandparents house while my two cousins were there. Jimmy and Jeff. My parents did not get along very well with my Aunt Madeline. In fact, in later years, my father would disown her. I remember that my grandmother was rocking the other children one by one and putting them down for a nap. She asked me to let her rock me for a little while. That she knew that I didn't need a nap but that it would help with the little ones. I remember her holding me as she rocked. I didn't go to sleep but she talked to me as she rocked me back and forth. Thinking back, I think that was more for her than the little ones. That's one of the few times she was able to hold and rock me. That's so sad. Especially when I think of the hours I have spent rocking and hold my granddaughter. I treasure every minute of that time. I never realized how much my grandmother missed out on with our being so far away. The first time I spent the night with my grandparents was when I was 14 just before we left to spend three years in Germany.
My closeness was not with my grandparents but with my grandmother's father. My Great-Grandpa Brown. Most of my memories are of him. I would love to sit on the porch swing and talk to him. We would just swing and talk. I don't remember what we talked about. I know he talked a lot about the old days. The thing I remember is that he always made me feel like what I said was important. I also remember that he loved to play solitaire and it would bother me that he cheated when he didn't think I was looking. I remember coming home from trick or treating on Halloween when I was seven and my parents getting the telephone call that he had died in his sleep. I'm so thankful for the time I got to spend with him.
Today I get to babysit. It's always fun to spend a few hours with my favorite little girl. What is going to be an experience is this weekend. I am going to have my precious grandbaby for the whole weekend. This is big. This will be a first time for both of us. I hope she's ready for this. I hope I'm ready for this.
My children spent lots of time with their grandparents. That was one of the advantages of living so close to them. I enjoyed the nights that they spent at their grandparents houses and I know how much it meant to their grandparents. That is such a special relationship. I know how important those memories are for my children. I want those memories for my granddaughter too.
Everything is ready. I have the milk, the chicken nuggets and the goldfish. I have the toys ready to be played with. I have warned the dog that she is coming. All we need is the baby.
As I have said before, I didn't see my grandparents very often. When I have about four years old my father was sent to Korea. My mother and I moved to California to be closer to my father's parents. I have some memories of that time.
One memory is being at my grandparents house while my two cousins were there. Jimmy and Jeff. My parents did not get along very well with my Aunt Madeline. In fact, in later years, my father would disown her. I remember that my grandmother was rocking the other children one by one and putting them down for a nap. She asked me to let her rock me for a little while. That she knew that I didn't need a nap but that it would help with the little ones. I remember her holding me as she rocked. I didn't go to sleep but she talked to me as she rocked me back and forth. Thinking back, I think that was more for her than the little ones. That's one of the few times she was able to hold and rock me. That's so sad. Especially when I think of the hours I have spent rocking and hold my granddaughter. I treasure every minute of that time. I never realized how much my grandmother missed out on with our being so far away. The first time I spent the night with my grandparents was when I was 14 just before we left to spend three years in Germany.
My closeness was not with my grandparents but with my grandmother's father. My Great-Grandpa Brown. Most of my memories are of him. I would love to sit on the porch swing and talk to him. We would just swing and talk. I don't remember what we talked about. I know he talked a lot about the old days. The thing I remember is that he always made me feel like what I said was important. I also remember that he loved to play solitaire and it would bother me that he cheated when he didn't think I was looking. I remember coming home from trick or treating on Halloween when I was seven and my parents getting the telephone call that he had died in his sleep. I'm so thankful for the time I got to spend with him.
Monday, October 16, 2006
Houses
This weekend Missy had me watch a movie called "My Life As A House". This was wonderful and touching movie and about a man, his son and the house they are building. I definitely recommend it but I do suggest that you have a box of kleenex with you when you watch it.
This got me to thinking about the houses we live in. Some of us live in big houses and some in small houses. I live in a small house. When we moved into our house 29 years ago it was new. It was our job to create the home that this house was to be. To give the memories that would be stored in the soul of the house.
All of these houses start out the same. It is what we fill them with that makes them a home or just a dwelling for our possessions. I'm not talking about furniture. I'm talking about the feeling that get when you enter a home. Our home was one of those houses that was not quiet. We had two children and numerous animals running around. Our furniture was hand me down. But when I entered that home I always felt love surround me. I hope that is what everyone else felt when they entered that door.
Now the children are gone and the house has a quiet that is totally different from before. It is weathered and worn. Like it's owner. In the last few years, the home has changed. Now it has become a refuge and sanctuary. It is where I go when something is amiss. Either with my mind, spirit or body. It is my safe haven that I can run to, lock the door and feel safe. It is where I can hide from the rest of the world. The house and I have grown old together.
But even though the house is my sanctuary and retreat, it is still a home. A place where my children can come. A place where they can return to their childhoods. It is their place of comfort when needed. And on special occassions, like Christmas, it is the return to memories and traditions that are so important to a family.
Now the house is making new memories with a new generation. Once again the living room is cluttered with the toys of a child. Squeals of laughter fill the air when my granddaughter is there. Hopefully, when she is older, this house will hold lots of memories of love and laughter. I hope that she will always feel safe and secure when she walks through that front door.
Yes, a house can so much more than the bricks and wood that make it a house.
This got me to thinking about the houses we live in. Some of us live in big houses and some in small houses. I live in a small house. When we moved into our house 29 years ago it was new. It was our job to create the home that this house was to be. To give the memories that would be stored in the soul of the house.
All of these houses start out the same. It is what we fill them with that makes them a home or just a dwelling for our possessions. I'm not talking about furniture. I'm talking about the feeling that get when you enter a home. Our home was one of those houses that was not quiet. We had two children and numerous animals running around. Our furniture was hand me down. But when I entered that home I always felt love surround me. I hope that is what everyone else felt when they entered that door.
Now the children are gone and the house has a quiet that is totally different from before. It is weathered and worn. Like it's owner. In the last few years, the home has changed. Now it has become a refuge and sanctuary. It is where I go when something is amiss. Either with my mind, spirit or body. It is my safe haven that I can run to, lock the door and feel safe. It is where I can hide from the rest of the world. The house and I have grown old together.
But even though the house is my sanctuary and retreat, it is still a home. A place where my children can come. A place where they can return to their childhoods. It is their place of comfort when needed. And on special occassions, like Christmas, it is the return to memories and traditions that are so important to a family.
Now the house is making new memories with a new generation. Once again the living room is cluttered with the toys of a child. Squeals of laughter fill the air when my granddaughter is there. Hopefully, when she is older, this house will hold lots of memories of love and laughter. I hope that she will always feel safe and secure when she walks through that front door.
Yes, a house can so much more than the bricks and wood that make it a house.
Friday, October 13, 2006
Fall

Fall has finally arrived in Central Texas. I'm sure it won't last but it was so wonderful to walk out to 50 degree temperatures this morning. In a couple of days we will be back in the 90's again so I plan to enjoy it while I can. We seem to have two seasons around here. Air conditioning and heating.
At least Serif found she could still wear her sweater
I hope everyone has a great weekend.
Wednesday, October 11, 2006
Sick Baby
I love computers. Not only is it a great way to keep in touch with the world but it's a great way to keep in touch with your family.
What did we do before we could im someone whenever we wanted to? This morning I had a sick grandbaby. There's nothing worse than a sick baby. She was throwing up during the night. Her poor little tummy was bothering her and she didn't want to eat anything. Her mommy stayed home with her.
Missy was good enough to im me and let me know what was going on. She has been able to keep me informed step by step of Serif's progress throughout the day. From when she was able to start sipping water to when she woke up and finally smiled. I am so fortunate to have a daughter who includes me in this wonderful little girl's life.
These days families are scattered and it's hard for grandparents to spend time with their grandchildren. I know of grandmother's who, if they are lucky, get to see their grandchildren once a year. When I was growing up I didn't see my grandparents that often. To me they were voices over a telephone.
I was so happy that my children grew up in the same town as their grandparents. They were able to enjoy them as they grew up. Both of my children have loving memories of their grandparents. There is a special bond between a grandparent and their grandchildren.
I am so happy that I live in the same town as my precious Serif. I try to spend as much time as I can with her. I want to be as much a part of her life as I can. I feel sorry for those grandparents that live close to their grandchildren and don't take advantage of spending time with their grandchildren. They are missing so much.
I definitely think they have it right when they said the best part of having children is that sooner or later, if you're lucky, you get to become a grandparent.
Serif is feeling better so Grammy G will be stopping by for some hugs and kisses on the way home from work. I am so lucky.
What did we do before we could im someone whenever we wanted to? This morning I had a sick grandbaby. There's nothing worse than a sick baby. She was throwing up during the night. Her poor little tummy was bothering her and she didn't want to eat anything. Her mommy stayed home with her.
Missy was good enough to im me and let me know what was going on. She has been able to keep me informed step by step of Serif's progress throughout the day. From when she was able to start sipping water to when she woke up and finally smiled. I am so fortunate to have a daughter who includes me in this wonderful little girl's life.
These days families are scattered and it's hard for grandparents to spend time with their grandchildren. I know of grandmother's who, if they are lucky, get to see their grandchildren once a year. When I was growing up I didn't see my grandparents that often. To me they were voices over a telephone.
I was so happy that my children grew up in the same town as their grandparents. They were able to enjoy them as they grew up. Both of my children have loving memories of their grandparents. There is a special bond between a grandparent and their grandchildren.
I am so happy that I live in the same town as my precious Serif. I try to spend as much time as I can with her. I want to be as much a part of her life as I can. I feel sorry for those grandparents that live close to their grandchildren and don't take advantage of spending time with their grandchildren. They are missing so much.
I definitely think they have it right when they said the best part of having children is that sooner or later, if you're lucky, you get to become a grandparent.
Serif is feeling better so Grammy G will be stopping by for some hugs and kisses on the way home from work. I am so lucky.
Friday, October 06, 2006
Home
Grammy G was what is known as an Army brat. That means that my daddy (your great-grandpa) was in the army and we moved around a lot. When I was growing up we usually moved every two to three years. It could be hard. Especially being an only child. That meant I spent a lot of time alone and learned to play by myself at an early age.
Don't get me wrong. I loved my life. Of course, to be honest, it was the only life I knew. What I was getting at is that I was used to change.
When I met your grandpa, I settled down to one spot. When we first got married, we lived in a duplex on 6th street. Grandpa's Granny lived in the other side of the duplex. It was nice there and we loved it but we both worked in North Austin. This meant we had to get up very early in the morning to get to our jobs. Since my job started at 7:00 am, we had to be on the road by 6. Trust me, nothing has changed. Grammy G was even less of a morning person back then. So we started looking for a house in North Austin.
We found a great little house. I loved that house. It looked like a doll house. It was very small but perfect for our little family. We were so happy there. That's where we brought your mother after she was born. Unfortunately, adding another child to the family (we already had your Uncle Tom) made the house a little small for us. So we had to look for a house big enough for the 4 of us.
That's when we found the house that Grammy G lives in now. Your mommy was 9 months old when we bought that house. Grammy G has been in that house 29 years this last July. As I said before, I was an Army brat and I was not used to staying in one place that long.
Your grandpa was used to coming home and finding the furniture moved around. That's what I would do when I needed a change. I would move furniture. That worked pretty good but right now I've run out of ways to rearrange my furniture.
Maybe that's why lately Grammy G has actually thought about moving. This last summer was really hard on me. The temperature was over 100 degrees most of the summer. The allergies have been the worse they've ever been. So I started thinking about the possibility of moving.
Then I thought about where I would go. I have family in Kansas. I have lived in Kansas and, even though it is a very nice state, I wouldn't want to live there. I have friends in Colorado and in Oregon. The weather would be nicer there. (At least until the snow came) But then I realized why I couldn't go to any of those places. It's because you wouldn't be there. I don't want to leave my wonderful beautiful grandbaby or my wonderful family. You are too precious and you are growing up so fast. There is no way that I would willingly miss a minute of my special time with you.
So thoughts of moving have put away until they sneak into my thoughts again. I will continue to try to figure out how to rearrange the living room and I will spend every minute I can with you. Afterall, home is where the heart is and my heart is all yours.
Don't get me wrong. I loved my life. Of course, to be honest, it was the only life I knew. What I was getting at is that I was used to change.
When I met your grandpa, I settled down to one spot. When we first got married, we lived in a duplex on 6th street. Grandpa's Granny lived in the other side of the duplex. It was nice there and we loved it but we both worked in North Austin. This meant we had to get up very early in the morning to get to our jobs. Since my job started at 7:00 am, we had to be on the road by 6. Trust me, nothing has changed. Grammy G was even less of a morning person back then. So we started looking for a house in North Austin.
We found a great little house. I loved that house. It looked like a doll house. It was very small but perfect for our little family. We were so happy there. That's where we brought your mother after she was born. Unfortunately, adding another child to the family (we already had your Uncle Tom) made the house a little small for us. So we had to look for a house big enough for the 4 of us.
That's when we found the house that Grammy G lives in now. Your mommy was 9 months old when we bought that house. Grammy G has been in that house 29 years this last July. As I said before, I was an Army brat and I was not used to staying in one place that long.
Your grandpa was used to coming home and finding the furniture moved around. That's what I would do when I needed a change. I would move furniture. That worked pretty good but right now I've run out of ways to rearrange my furniture.
Maybe that's why lately Grammy G has actually thought about moving. This last summer was really hard on me. The temperature was over 100 degrees most of the summer. The allergies have been the worse they've ever been. So I started thinking about the possibility of moving.
Then I thought about where I would go. I have family in Kansas. I have lived in Kansas and, even though it is a very nice state, I wouldn't want to live there. I have friends in Colorado and in Oregon. The weather would be nicer there. (At least until the snow came) But then I realized why I couldn't go to any of those places. It's because you wouldn't be there. I don't want to leave my wonderful beautiful grandbaby or my wonderful family. You are too precious and you are growing up so fast. There is no way that I would willingly miss a minute of my special time with you.
So thoughts of moving have put away until they sneak into my thoughts again. I will continue to try to figure out how to rearrange the living room and I will spend every minute I can with you. Afterall, home is where the heart is and my heart is all yours.
Monday, October 02, 2006
Family
This has been a very busy weekend for Grammy G. It was all about family. Just the way I like it. I got to spend lots of time with all my favorite people.
Friday night I had a wonderful visit with Tom, Missy and Serif. As usual, Serif was the main attraction. She entertained us all. Terry had to deal with some family matters and joined us later in the evening. It was all very relaxed and a perfect ending to the work week.
Saturday brought the preparation for Emily's 10th birthday party. What a special day for a luau. The weather was warm and the sky was bright blue. Missy and Terry were helping to care for their friend's animals while they were away this weekend. That meant I got to go with them to care for them on the way to the party and then again when the party was over. It was so much fun to visit with Tibalt and Hamlet. They are both great. Hamlet is the cat and usually a little leery of people but since mommy and daddy were gone Ham was more than happy to accept pets from me. Tibalt, part wiener dog and rat terrier, loves everyone. We had a good visit. Tibalt and Serif are great friends.
Then it was off to the party. We got there early to help set up. Terry's mother is one of those talented people that is very creative. She made a tiki hut bar and also one of those cardboard posters that you put your head through to have your picture taken. One side was a hula girl and the other was a male torch dancer. All the girls loved having their pictures taken. There were straws with flowers on them. Rubber duckies were provided for your drinks. Or, in Serif's case, chewed on. There was a limbo contest and a hula hoop contest. Lots of laughter all around. It was a great birthday party and I think everyone had a wonderful time. The only draw back to the whole day was mosquitos. By the end we were all just scratching our legs raw.
By the time the party was over, all the grownups were pooped. We grabbed Terry's mother and the five of us headed out to a well deserved dinner. It was so nice to sit and relax over some good mexican food. Serif made the rounds around the table and enjoyed eating from everyone's plate. She gave special attention to both of her grandmothers. After a nice relaxing dinner and good conversation, we were all ready to go home to our beds.
Sunday morning was for laying around and relaxing. I had felt like I had spent very little time with Bosco so he got my full attention. Lots of pets and loves. After everyone had a nice relaxing morning and naps were out of the way, it was off to the store. Poor Terry was sick on Sunday so he wasn't having the best time. Allergies in Austin are bad this time of year.
After the store, it was home to get ready for a new week. It was such a nice weekend. I always love spending time with family. But I have to admit it was nice to kick off my shoes, pick up some knitting and relax in front of the TV. Sometimes there just aren't enough hours in the weekend.
Friday night I had a wonderful visit with Tom, Missy and Serif. As usual, Serif was the main attraction. She entertained us all. Terry had to deal with some family matters and joined us later in the evening. It was all very relaxed and a perfect ending to the work week.
Saturday brought the preparation for Emily's 10th birthday party. What a special day for a luau. The weather was warm and the sky was bright blue. Missy and Terry were helping to care for their friend's animals while they were away this weekend. That meant I got to go with them to care for them on the way to the party and then again when the party was over. It was so much fun to visit with Tibalt and Hamlet. They are both great. Hamlet is the cat and usually a little leery of people but since mommy and daddy were gone Ham was more than happy to accept pets from me. Tibalt, part wiener dog and rat terrier, loves everyone. We had a good visit. Tibalt and Serif are great friends.
Then it was off to the party. We got there early to help set up. Terry's mother is one of those talented people that is very creative. She made a tiki hut bar and also one of those cardboard posters that you put your head through to have your picture taken. One side was a hula girl and the other was a male torch dancer. All the girls loved having their pictures taken. There were straws with flowers on them. Rubber duckies were provided for your drinks. Or, in Serif's case, chewed on. There was a limbo contest and a hula hoop contest. Lots of laughter all around. It was a great birthday party and I think everyone had a wonderful time. The only draw back to the whole day was mosquitos. By the end we were all just scratching our legs raw.
By the time the party was over, all the grownups were pooped. We grabbed Terry's mother and the five of us headed out to a well deserved dinner. It was so nice to sit and relax over some good mexican food. Serif made the rounds around the table and enjoyed eating from everyone's plate. She gave special attention to both of her grandmothers. After a nice relaxing dinner and good conversation, we were all ready to go home to our beds.
Sunday morning was for laying around and relaxing. I had felt like I had spent very little time with Bosco so he got my full attention. Lots of pets and loves. After everyone had a nice relaxing morning and naps were out of the way, it was off to the store. Poor Terry was sick on Sunday so he wasn't having the best time. Allergies in Austin are bad this time of year.
After the store, it was home to get ready for a new week. It was such a nice weekend. I always love spending time with family. But I have to admit it was nice to kick off my shoes, pick up some knitting and relax in front of the TV. Sometimes there just aren't enough hours in the weekend.
Thursday, September 28, 2006
Sore Feet
I read somewhere that as you get older you lose padding on the bottom of your feet. Can you believe that? Now, trust me, Grammy G has lots of fat she could lose all over her body. But I never wanted to lose fat from the bottom of my feet. Guess that explains why I need to buy cushions for my shoes. Another of those strange things about getting old.
They really wear that sweet grandbaby out at day care. I was lucky enough to be able to pick her up from day care yesterday. I got that sweet smile of hers when I got there but she was falling asleep by the time I was buckling her into the car seat. Such a sweet baby. Bosco went crazy when I carried her into the house. He just couldn't understand why he couldn't kiss her when we got there. Finally after about an hour I let him nudge her some and I started loving on her. We were able to ease her awake and she woke up with a smile on her face. Then the fun began. We got to play. She loves her new baby doll. Luckily I remembered to pick it up because Bosco loves it too. Unfortunately, his love is a little more distructive than hers.
The only time she was unhappy was when I wouldn't give her one of Bosco's goodies. I finally had to give Bosco one of her animal crackers and then give her one. She gave her first one to Bosco to make sure they were eating the same thing and then took one for herself. Boy that dog eats well when she's around.
They really wear that sweet grandbaby out at day care. I was lucky enough to be able to pick her up from day care yesterday. I got that sweet smile of hers when I got there but she was falling asleep by the time I was buckling her into the car seat. Such a sweet baby. Bosco went crazy when I carried her into the house. He just couldn't understand why he couldn't kiss her when we got there. Finally after about an hour I let him nudge her some and I started loving on her. We were able to ease her awake and she woke up with a smile on her face. Then the fun began. We got to play. She loves her new baby doll. Luckily I remembered to pick it up because Bosco loves it too. Unfortunately, his love is a little more distructive than hers.
The only time she was unhappy was when I wouldn't give her one of Bosco's goodies. I finally had to give Bosco one of her animal crackers and then give her one. She gave her first one to Bosco to make sure they were eating the same thing and then took one for herself. Boy that dog eats well when she's around.
Wednesday, September 27, 2006
Friends
Grammy G is so lucky. I have wonderful children but my children have wonderful friends.
Last night as I was standing at the refrigerator trying to figure out what to cook, my wonderful daughter called. She told me that my precious granddaughter missed her Grammy and that their friends had included me in their invitation to go to dinner. How sweet is that? I couldn't say no. Especially when my bug missed her Grammy. I petted old Bosco and was out the door. When I pulled up all the kids were in the front yard. Serif got the biggest grin on her face when she saw her Grammy drive up. That definitely made my day.
We had such a nice visit. Missy's friend Marissa is getting ready to leave for Las Vegas to attend her brother's wedding. How exciting. Two young people getting ready to start their lives together. I know it's going to be a joyous occasion for everyone. I even gave Marissa some quarters from me to play in the slot machine. Hey, I'll try anything.
This afternoon I get to pick Serif up from day care. How exciting. I can't wait for this work day to be over. I will take her home with me and her parents can get her after their appointment. I have a list of everything that I'm supposed to remember from the school. Hope I remember everything. Once I get my hands on that baby, everything else just goes out the window.
Last night as I was standing at the refrigerator trying to figure out what to cook, my wonderful daughter called. She told me that my precious granddaughter missed her Grammy and that their friends had included me in their invitation to go to dinner. How sweet is that? I couldn't say no. Especially when my bug missed her Grammy. I petted old Bosco and was out the door. When I pulled up all the kids were in the front yard. Serif got the biggest grin on her face when she saw her Grammy drive up. That definitely made my day.
We had such a nice visit. Missy's friend Marissa is getting ready to leave for Las Vegas to attend her brother's wedding. How exciting. Two young people getting ready to start their lives together. I know it's going to be a joyous occasion for everyone. I even gave Marissa some quarters from me to play in the slot machine. Hey, I'll try anything.
This afternoon I get to pick Serif up from day care. How exciting. I can't wait for this work day to be over. I will take her home with me and her parents can get her after their appointment. I have a list of everything that I'm supposed to remember from the school. Hope I remember everything. Once I get my hands on that baby, everything else just goes out the window.
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