One of the hardest things a mother can go through is watching her child in pain and knowing that there is nothing she can do about it. That's the way it has been for me that last couple of days. I have had to sit back and watch my sweet daughter go through one of the hardest things a woman can go through. The loss of a child. Missy lost her baby last week.

I was at work on Wednesday when Terry notified me about the baby. I am so grateful for the people I work with. There was no hesitation. Just go be with Missy and that's what I did. We all arrive at Missy's house to be with her. Her MIL, her SIL, Terry and me. We were all there to give her the support she needed. She was still in shock then.

I took Serif home with me since Missy had to go to the hospital early for her D&C. Afterward, she and Terry came over to my house so I could watch over them. At least I was able to feel like I could help a little.

I am so impressed with Missy. She is a strong woman. I know how hard this is. She is not hiding from the pain and loss. She will grieve but she is also looking toward the future. Serif is a big help. She doesn't know what's going on but she does know something is going on. She is being there for her mommy. She is watching over her and taking care of her in her own way.

Missy and Terry have a wonderful marriage and family. They will get through this stronger and better than before. Every time something bad happens they pull together and draw strength and hope from each other. They will continue to grieve but there is hope too and Serif is there to contantly remind them of the future that their family has.